Marrying a Jew or About Jewish Men with a Smile

What do men want? Hmm, a complex question – especially when it comes to Jewish dating. We conducted a small survey among our site users – and their responses made us think, wonder, sigh, and… smile.

Let's start with the obvious.

Yes, in this case, the way to a man's heart is indeed through his stomach. No small portions and fast food! A three-course meal would be perfect, especially if you cook it yourself with love.

It’s a common misconception that men love dolls: super-groomed, on heels, and in full makeup. Relax and stop fussing in front of the mirror – if we genuinely like a girl, we absolutely don’t care what she’s wearing. Comfortable sneakers and a hoodie suit us just fine – the main thing is that you feel good with us.

For some unknown reason, the words "man" and "disorder" have long become synonyms. This is absolutely not true! Maybe we don't arrange our CDs alphabetically, or our clothes by color, but we really appreciate when there's cleanliness and order at home.

There are people who are genetically predisposed to various kinds of confrontations. Well – that's definitely not us! The ideal woman for a Jewish man would not create disputes at every turn or challenge everything – on the contrary, like him, she would strive by all means to create a comfortable atmosphere at home.

Surprise: men can be afraid too. Of what exactly? Anything: heights, insects, confrontations, or jumping from a diving board. And if you bravely squash that big spider in the corner for us, we will be profoundly grateful and seriously start thinking about proposing.

And we might even shed a tear during a melodrama or at a best friend's wedding. We know all about gender roles – but despite our external strength and masculinity, we can also be soft, sensitive, and sentimental. And we are confident that this will be appreciated today.

Just looking, nothing more! At a party, in a store, or at a meeting with colleagues, we might sometimes glance at another woman. But only in passing – to reassure ourselves once again how lucky we are, because she is not as attractive as you. We just periodically check that this is so.

Yes, this weakness is not only inherent in women. We also adore when you spoil us with gifts – from a box of our favorite chocolate candies to a brand new motorcycle. Yes, that very one we've been dreaming about for four years.

To nail a shelf, fix a faucet, or assemble an Ikea cabinet… Generally, a Jewish man does not like to do housework, so any expectation that the shelf will indeed be nailed may lead to your disappointment.

It's better to forget about it altogether: you can’t fight evolution. Just remember: a Jewish man is not inclined to physical labor on a cellular level!

Besides, we always think about our neighbor. Mow the lawn? Why, if there are perfectly decent non-Jews in our neighborhood desperately in need of work?

Including to attract the right Jewish woman who will become our wife.

Please note: all the above is not a direct guide to action. And a woman planning to marry a Jew should first consult with her mother.

Enjoy Jewish dating – and may your dreams come true with Meet Mazal!